Nee Nee Chronicles

HALT! WHO AM I! OUR OWN IDENTITY

2011-10-09T13:24:00.001-06:00

These were the words of the talk from Mary Ellen Edmunds on Friday evening at Time Out For Women. Time Out For Women is a weekend full of motivational talks, singing, sharing, laughing, crying and growing. Mary Ellen Edmunds is one of my favorite people. I have known her since I was 4. She went to nursing school with my Aunt Julie and she used to bring her guitar and come to my grandparents home and sing silly songs to my sister Lynette and I. Over the years, I have seen her at different family events and Friday evening I was honored and blessed to hear her uplifting words. She likened us to a carrot. When you plant a carrot seed, it knows it is a carrot. It doesn't decide to be a turnip or a potato. It is destined to be a carrot. With care and nourishment, it grows and becomes something beautiful and tasty.

We each have our own identity and nobody can take that away from us. We are each different and unique.That is what we are meant to be. With the proper nourishment and caring, we are daughters of a Heavenly Father who loves us. Throughout the thorns of life, sometimes we are lost and we don't appear to be who we are destined to be. The world gives us many reasons not to be beautiful and reach our full potential.

Over the past weekend, I realized I am very dusty and covered with weeds. It is time to come out, remove the dust and weeds and be my full potential. This is not an overnight process or a week long process, but the rest of my lifetime process. One step at a time.

Senior Dinner

2011-05-22T12:05:00.000-06:00

Tyler's grad slide. This is hard to see. I am going to try to get a copy from the school and I will repost. The yellow background on the slide means he graduated with HONORS.

Garrett Crabb. This is Tyler's best buddy. He got an English award and they honored Garrett by giving him a Kindle. He loves to read and was so very excited.

Tyler with his SENIOR ROSE!

As they called each senior up to receive their rose, they asked each student if they wanted to thank anyone. This is Tyler standing next to Edee, his absolute favorite teacher at VPHS.

Tyler thanking the staff.

Tyler gave a heartfelt thank you to each one of the staff members who had helped him make it through this year.

My Tyler.

Kira Aarestad and Tyler. She played a very influential part in his classes this year. She was his Poetry / English teacher.

Tyler and Maura. Tyler did not have her as a teacher, but he really liked her.

Tyler and Taylor Watkins - his girlfriend.

Taylor and Tyler.

Tyler and Meredith Changeoux. She is an amazing teacher and Tyler will always remember her. Her husband is from Haiti and they have a foundation. Tyler helped with their fundraiser a week ago and hopes to someday go to Haiti with Meredith and her husband to volunteer at their boys home/school.

Tyler went to Vantage Point High School for his senior year. It is the alternative school in Adams 5 Star School District. Unfortunately "ALTERNATIVE HIGH SCHOOLS" get a bad name. Let me put a plug in for this school - SIMPLY AMAZING. There are only approximately 240 kids in the entire school. It is NOT for bad kids, just kids to have a hard time coping in a traditional school setting. It is the best school ever! Tyler had an amazing experience at this school, which allowed him to graduate on time. Wednesday, May 18th was his senior dinner. All the seniors were invited to share with two people of their choosing to come, have dinner and honor the graduating seniors. One of the teachers, Tracy Schuster, created a slide show presentation of all the graduating seniors. Each had a picture of their choosing, had their senior quote and a couple facts about each student. Of the 63 graduates, three students graduated with "HONORS", Tyler being one of them.

Update

2011-05-22T11:12:00.001-06:00

The last month has been crazy busy. My sister, Janet (the Boss) turned 40. It was low key because I was getting prepared for Tyler's Graduation. This summer will be a make up party for her. We took her to Macaroni Grill for her birthday dinner. It was YUMMY! I got her 3 slices of cheesecake from the Cheesecake factory - Key Lime (her favorite), Vanilla Bean and Peanut Butter Cup.

She has always been there for me, to support me, to help me in raising Tyler. She loves Tyler so much and would do anything for him. She works two jobs, she is funny, loves shopping and shoes.

Dogs love Janet. Once when she went to the groomers with me to pick up Sadee, all of the dogs that were there to be groomed rolled over for a belly rub. She is the queen of belly rubs for dogs. There is something about her that dogs can sense. We call her Cesarita Milana (the female version of Cesar Milan, the dog whisperer). She talks to them and they listen. It is so funny. My dogs LOVE, LOVE, LOVE her.

I love her and can always count on her to make me laugh no matter what is going on! Happy Birthday to the BOSS.

Introducing...

2011-04-12T12:58:00.000-06:00

Britlee Rayne Packer
April 10th, 2011
11:00 p.m.
7 pounds, 20 inches

Proud parents: Justin and Kelli Packer.

I am a great aunt! Justin is my oldest nephew, the son of my sister and brother-in-law Lynette and Terry Packer. Justin and his wife Kelli live in Rexburg, Idaho while Justin is working and going to school.

Proud Mom, Kelli, with new daughter Britlee

Britlee

I want my dad!

Spiritual Nourishment

2011-04-03T14:17:00.000-06:00

This is some spiritual nourishment I received while listening to General Conference this weekend. I think these words were spoken directly to me.
neglecting prayer, scripture study, temple attendance, and visiting teaching jeopardizes our testimony.

Take Me Out to the Ball Game

2011-04-01T09:07:00.000-06:00

Taken at Coors Field April 26th, 2010

Alas! The 19th Season of Colorado Rockies Baseball begins today at 1:05 p.m. at Coors Field in LoDo. Spring training was great this year and maybe this is the year the Rockies will be our home town heroes and bring us to the playoffs. There is so much excitement downtown and working downtown makes it more fun. Baseball is the talk of the town today and I wish I had tickets to this opening day game. 78 degrees is supposed to be the temperature here. Wish I was headed to the game instead of working today. GO ROCKIES!

March Madness 2011

2011-03-18T15:57:00.000-06:00

Tyler & Daniel at the Pepsi Center

It pays to have friends who happen to be co-workers, who have lucky winning skills. This picture of Tyler and his friend Daniel were the recipients of tickets to the BYU game on March 17th at the Pepsi Center. BYU won and these young men were in heaven!

Self-Worth

2011-02-23T12:44:00.000-07:00

One Flaw in Women -
Women have strengths that amaze men...
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there
is no strength left.
they know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or email you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.
Women have vital things to say
and everything to give...
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Hard Work Pays Off!

2011-02-22T12:23:00.000-07:00

I provide administrative support to several people at my job. I was asked by a Vice President to assist in the absense of one of his team members. I got this bouquet of flowers and the note attached to the bouquet that read: THANK YOU, Colleen - partnering with you has been specacular. Thank you so very much for all your help. I can't begin to tell you how much you are appreciated. Ero Johnson & the entire Endowment Funds Team.

Valentine's Day

2011-02-14T10:17:00.000-07:00

Growing up I looked forward to Valentine's Day - waiting to see the fanciest, sweetest, or silliest cards I would receive. One time in my entire life I received the most gorgeous dozen pink roses from Tyler's dad. I dried them and saved them for a very long time.

Today my Valentine's post is dedicated to my son Tyler. 18 years ago, I was pregnant. I worked at Stationers Distributing Company. I used to take my lunch hour and go sit in my car and take a nap. That day I felt Tyler move for the first time. It was the so exciting to me. Every Valentine's Day I think of being alone, pregnant, but feeling my baby move is my fondest memory of Valentine's Day, even 18 years later.

Happy Valentine's Day to my Tyler Scott!

Snow and Cold Go Away

2011-02-01T12:02:00.003-07:00

Denver has hardly had any snow until the last month. Now we are in a deep freeze. This is the forecast high today. Only 93 days until Spring 2011 - please hurry and get here. I am ready for cool morning, warm days and perfect evenings.

What's In Your Bag?

2011-01-25T08:02:00.006-07:00

I have been thinking about baggage and what we carry around. Just like our lives, sometimes our bags get cluttered with papers, receipts, notes, reminders and other things that we think we need.

I have alot of baggage - sometimes I think that my baggage has inhibited me from finding a mate. An opinionated, single mom with a strong-willed son are not always what men are looking for.

It is time to really evaluate what I am carrying around in my bag. Maybe it is time to unload my excess from my bags and only carry what is necessary.

Right now I am carrying around what seems to be a 2 ton suitcase. It is full of life's lessons learned, my strong-willed son and my beliefs. These are my most prized possessions.

What are you carrying in your bag?

Have Joy

2011-01-20T11:12:00.004-07:00

Our path to full joy leads right through tribulation. This has been my life lately.
Endure the pressure.... not always easy.
Do not bail when life gets tough. I am trying to be strong.

Checking out the Snow

2011-01-10T14:00:00.004-07:00

I love this dog. This picture says it all... as he is looking out the window checking on Sadee and the snow.

2011

2011-01-02T14:56:00.004-07:00

Who am I...
A mother...
A daughter...
A sister...
A friend...
Loves fashion and shopping...
A Girly Girl....

What was 2010...

Full of challenges

Missing my son

Dealing with doctors

Learning to deal with Tyler's depression

Working too hard

Struggling personally

What I look forward to in 2011...
New business opportunities
Work hard...play harder
Tyler's high school graduation

Summer weather
Taking a real vacation
Working out
Reaching my goal weight
Reading more books
Worry less what others think of me
Learn to love myself more
Taking a real vacation
Continue my work outs
Reach my goal weight (-34 in 2010)
Finishing projects

Happy New Year

2011-01-02T13:52:00.007-07:00

Tyler and Dulce
Tyler - December 29th

Welcome 2011.

I am excited for a new year. Good bye to 2010. It was a year full of challenges. I am looking forward to a new start and good things happening. Tyler is half way through his Senior year in High School. To date, this has been the best year of school for him. I am grateful for his new high school and the programs they have in place. It has made a world of difference for him and good things have happened for him. For the first quarter, he had a 3.5 grade point average and was on the honor roll. We have not received the final 2nd quarter grades, but I expect that they are very similar to the first quarter. Yeah Tyler! He will graduate from Vantage Point High School on May 19th, 2011!

He has a very nice girl friend he met at a concert. Her name is Dulce and she actually attends Northglenn High and remembered Tyler when he attended that school. He has made some really good friends in the singles ward in our stake and has decided to attend the singles ward. He went to Salt Lake the Saturday - Tuesday prior to Christmas with Beth, Jesse and Daniel - all friends he has been hanging out with from the singles ward. They are great kids and I am thankful for their example and friendship with Tyler.

Essential Oils - New Business Venture

2010-12-27T12:56:00.002-07:00

What are essential oils?

Essential oils are natural aromatic compounds found in seeds, bark, stems, roots and flowers of plants. They can be both beautifully and powerfully fragrant, eliciting profound emotional responses. Yet the use of essential oils goes well beyond their fragrant appeal. Used throughout history for their medicinal and theraputic benefits, essential oils can be used as natural alternatives in holistic self-care practices. Their unique chemistry allows them to be used aromatically and topically applied to the skin, while other essential oils can be used as dietary aids to promote vitality and well being.

doTerra (meaning "Gift of the Earth") essential oils represents the safest, purest essential oils available in the world today. Each of doTerra's CPTG Certified Pure Theraputic Grade® essentials oils is carefully extracted by a global network of skilled growers, distillers and chemists ensuring a consistently powerful user experience. They are 100% pure aromatic extracts and contain no artificial ingredients and are tested to be free of contaminants such as pesticides or other chemical residues.

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or you can contact me for more information at acgirl1965@hotmail.com.

I know these work. Tyler has used these as he cannot take over the counter medications due to the medicines he is currently taking. He uses peppermint for headaches or stomach aches and Deep Blue for muscle / body aches. He has used Breathe for sinus and congestion.

2010 Christmas

2010-12-21T11:53:00.001-07:00

Merry Montage Christmas

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Friday Happiness

2010-12-10T13:44:00.003-07:00

Salted Caramel Hot Chocolate from Starbucks... Everyone should have one of these. These can make any day EXTRA ORDINARY! If you haven't tried one, I suggest you get to your local Starbucks and order one. A Tall or Grande is just enough.

Procrastination

2010-12-01T09:23:00.003-07:00

pile up too many tomorrows and you'll find that you've collected nothing but a bunch of empty yesterdays. from the movie The Music Man

do what you need to do today so you can do what you want to do tomorrow.

Pretty in Pink

2010-11-29T10:31:00.002-07:00

Left to Right: Katie, Colleen & Abbie

These are my favorite co-workers. I love working with them. They are my best friends.

What Matters Most

2010-11-24T11:57:00.002-07:00

Tyler playing XBOX - sometimes that is what matters most to him.

If life and its rushed pace and many stresses have made it difficult for you to feel like rejoicing, then perhaps now is a good time to refocus on what matters most.

Dogs

2010-11-19T09:55:00.007-07:00

Panther - posing after being groomed
Panther showing his best smile.

Princess Sadee

Sadee's favorite spot - Grandma's front porch

Dogs are great. They have unconditional love for you. They are always happy to see you no matter what kind of day you have. They give you kisses - my Panther gives hugs. My Sadee dog has moved in with her grandma. She was bitten two years ago by my neighbor dog and was mad when Tyler got Panther, so she is happier living with her Grandma and Aunt Janet. I am grateful for my dogs.

Friends

2010-11-15T09:53:00.003-07:00

My bestie - Abbie
Ultrasound of her baby - 1 1/2" long @ 9 weeks along

I am grateful for friends. My bestie at work, Abbie, is going to be a mom. She is SO VERY EXCITED and I am so very excited for her. We have been friends for 4 1/2 years. When my very best friend, MarLa, passed away 5 years ago, I was so lost. We had been friends for 18 years and she was only 43 when she died. I felt so lost without her. I miss her still every day. I am so glad I have such a good friend that I can share good time, bad times, happy times, sad times and especially now we can share baby prep times.

Grateful

2010-11-12T07:55:00.004-07:00

I am grateful for many things. I have a job, a home, good health, and I am especially grateful for TYLER.

Warm Days and The First Snow

2010-11-10T11:20:00.005-07:00

Left to Right: Ty (5) and Blake (2)
Ty and Blake and the new play house

Are they not the cutest boy's ever? They are Ty and Blake, my nephews. One day they are checking out their new play house their talented dad made and the next day they were wishing it was not snowing. Oh to be 5 and 2... life is simple and then you grow up.

Do It Anyway

2010-10-26T11:36:00.004-06:00

People are often unreasonable, irrational and self-centered;

Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;

Be kind anyway.

If you are successfuly, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;

Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere, people may cheat you;

Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, someone could destroy overnight;

Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous;

Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten;

Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it will never be enough;

Give the world the best you've got anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God;

it was never between you and them anyway.

Rise Above

2010-10-25T11:11:00.003-06:00

Once I rose above the noise and confusion

Just to get a glimpse beyond the illusion

I was soaring ever higher, but I flew too high.

Though my eyes could see I was still blind

Though my mind could think I was still mad

Carry on my wayward child

For there'll be peace when you are done

On a stormy sea of emotion

Tossed about like a ship on the ocean

Carry on you will always remember

Carry on, nothing equals the splendor

Surely heaven waits for you.

It's Beginning to Look Like

2010-10-19T09:20:00.003-06:00

HaLlOwEeN...

Party plans are coming together for Tyler's Halloween Bash...

Food... Fun ... Costumes... Games

Milestones...

2010-10-18T10:34:00.003-06:00

August 2010

Left to right - Tyler, Chris, Ciara, Bruna & Bryn

(Trek family members)

mile·stone

[mahyl-stohn]

a significant event or stage in the life, progress,development, or the like of a person, nation, etc.

Tyler is 1/4 of the way through his senior year at Vantage Point High School. A new year... a new school... a new Tyler. He has made amazing strides since April. He just graduated from the Discovery Program - a mandatory required class at Vantage Point. Today is day 3 of seminary attendance - thank you Taylor Carlson, whom I have loved for almost 25 years (I used to be his nanny so I can say that).

Tyler gave a talk in church yesterday on Keeping the Sabbath Day holy... something we can all strive to and be better at. His purple tie matched the purple accents in his black hair. He looked so handsome and did a great job for speaking off the cuff (no notes or written out talk).

Sometimes life doesn't turn out the way you want or expect, but things happen to you for a reason. Tyler is my biggest reason for life today!

Capable

2010-10-04T09:56:00.002-06:00

I am capable of facing the challenges I am presented each day!

Happy Fall

2010-10-01T08:18:00.006-06:00

New Month - New Season - New Me! HAPPY! JOY! Welcome Fall - my favorite time of year!

Long Overdue Update

2010-09-02T11:11:00.003-06:00

Where has the summer gone? It is September and fall is around the corner. Just a bit of an update on life... Cheryl has made a miraculous recovery. Faith plus Prayers = Miracles! Baby Joseph is almost two months old and is doing well. He will have to have some surgery somewhere between the age of 4 to 6 months to remove the cist on his spinal cord, but there is a very high success rate for this surgery as infants. He has also had some genetic testing done (no results yet) as he has 13 ribs, a hole in his ear - resembling an ear piercing, and a large tongue plus being tongue tied. Thank you to anyone and everyone who prayed on behalf of my sister Cheryl, her baby Joseph and their family.

Tyler and I both celebrated July birthdays. Tyler is 17 now and just started his senior year at Vantage Point High School. This is a fresh start for him and I am proud of the young man he is. He has had some large obstacles in his life the past 5 months. We are working through them and he is happy to be starting fresh at a new school.

I have plenty of pictures to post and will do so over the long weekend.

Today

2010-07-15T15:56:00.004-06:00

This is the beginning of a new day.
I have been given this day to use as I will.
What I do today is important, because
I am exchanging a day of my life for it.
I want it to be a gain, not a loss;
Good not evil;
Success not failure;
In order that I shall not regret
The price I paid for it.

My sister Cheryl is doing better today. Most of the life support has
been removed. She is making small steps toward recovery. If you read my blog, please say an extra prayer for her and her baby Joseph.

Miracles happen.. prayers are answered...Life is a gift!

Bittersweet Birthday Surprise

2010-07-12T10:20:00.004-06:00

Cheryl & Dan - prior to the c-section birth
Dan and Joseph

On Friday, July 9th, my sister Cheryl gave birth to her 5th child, Joseph Jonathan Duncan. He was 5 weeks early, weighing in at 7 lbs, 7 oz. He is on a respirator, but doing OK. She bled out and had to have 30+ units of blood. Please keep her in your prayers as she is fighting for her life.

In Memory of Father Mickey

2010-07-02T22:49:00.007-06:00

ev. Michael Joseph Flaska, 59, of Evergreen.
Ordained to the priesthood May 31, 1997. He has served the
Archdiocese of Denver at various parishes in the area.
Brother of Judy (Charles) Marmann, Barbara (Bill) Engle,
James B. (Shirley) Flaska, andJanice Beecher.
Also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

Mass of Christian Burial, Friday, 1:30 p.m.,
Cathedral Basilica of the Immaculate Conception, 1530 Logan St., Denver.
Interment, Mount Olivet Cemetery.

Today I went to the funeral of Father Mickey. Mickey was a
friend of mine I met when Iworked in the office supply
industry 20 years ago. He had the best sense of humor
and made work a fun place to be. I was there when
he was ordained a priest
and saw him on and off since he became a priest. I last saw
him two years ago in
Longmont right before Christmas.

He was a very selfless man who cared about everyone he met.
I am grateful
I knew him and know I will see him again someday.

Until we meet again...

13 - 11 Red Sox Win

2010-06-28T12:49:00.006-06:00

A Coors Field Sell Out - June 24, 2010
Beautiful Sunset

A Colorado Red Sox Fan

The Red Sox came back in the bottom of the 10th inning to beat the Colorado Rockies by 2, with a score of 13 - 11. Tyler was one happy Red Sox Fan. This win prevented the Rockies from sweeping the series.

Rainy Day Activities

2010-06-14T12:10:00.008-06:00

What do you do when it rains for 3 days?

Street Swimming - Paige, Steven & Tyler

Tyler swimming in the street

Nose dives?

Washing their hair

Back to Front: Tyler, Steven & Wyatt

Tyler washing his hair in the rain

A New Chapter

2010-06-02T14:03:00.006-06:00

The Packers

(left to right - Justin, Stephanie, Lynette, Terry, Melanie and Nicole)

Terry and Lynette Packer - August 2009

After living in Colorado most of her life, my sister Lynette and her family are moving to Williston, North Dakota. Her husband Terry got a job as an electrical supervisor. All but their youngest is off on their own or soon will be. Nicole will be a sophomore in high school in the fall. Best of luck in their new endeavors. We will miss them.

Birthdays and Baseball

2010-05-03T15:51:00.007-06:00

20th @ Blake - Entrance to Coors Field

Beautiful Coors Field - Denver, CO

Left to Right: Colleen, The Boss, Tyler and Mom (Grandma)

Tyler and The Boss

Last weekend - April 25th was The Boss's Birthday. The Boss is my sister, Janet. That is my nickname for her. We have alot of fun together. We shop, go to the gym, walk the dogs and just have fun. I made her dinner - Honey Lime Chicken Enchiladas and a to die for dessert - Chocolate Eclair Cake! Yum.

Last Monday (April 26th) was the 15th anniversary of the opening of Coors Field. In remembrance of that opening day and in honor of the first home run, the Rockies brought back Dante Bichette. They even brought back Alan Roach, the original voice of the Rockies. Dante Bichette was his favorite name in the Rockies line up to say. And the surprise icing on the cake - Dante's best friend and team mate, Larry Walker, was there for the celebration! It was awesome.

Baseball and birthdays are the way to celebrate!

Each day

2010-04-26T13:58:00.003-06:00

We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.

Maya Angelou

Today

2010-04-22T10:01:00.002-06:00

"Don't take life for granted. Spend time with loved ones. Let your loved ones know how much you love them and live as everyday is your last."

Love One Another

2010-04-14T09:49:00.003-06:00

Only love,

Can bring the rain,

That makes you yearn to the sky.

Only love, can bring the rain,

That falls like tears from on high.

Love, reign over me.

Life is a true test of strength. Love heals all!

Easter

2010-04-05T08:57:00.005-06:00

Easter was quiet - Tyler was not feeling well - allergies have consumed his body and made him completely miserable.

We had dinner at my sister Diane's house. Ham, gooey potatoes, watergate salad, rolls, asparagus, edible chicks (dessert) and oreo cookie dessert.

After a brief visit, it was off to urgent care to be told that claritin and flonase are the best bet for Tyler. He was not impressed and mom is hoping for a quick month to pass in hopes of the pollen and blooms to be on their way.

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2010-03-17T09:07:00.005-06:00

Colleen - Female Irish girl

My dad served and LDS Mission in Ireland & Scotland - He chose my name. Someday I would like to visit those countries.

Until then, Happy St. Patrick's Day!

DI

2010-03-15T08:30:00.008-06:00

Tyler the Zombie

The judges conversing with the Northglenn High School team.

The news reporters - Alyssa & Danielle Teeters

Tyler dressed for the skit as a zombie.

What is DI you ask? DI stands for Destination ImagiNation. Tyler belongs to this club at Northglenn High School. His physics teacher is the club sponsor.

Destination ImagiNation is an innovative organization that teaches creativity, teamwork and problem solving to students across the US and in more than 30 countries. In Colorado, there are more than 750 teams or roughly 5,250 students participate in DI challenges. Teams are tested to think on their feet, work together as a team, learn critical thinking skills, and devise original solutions that satisfy the requirements of their challenge.

Their competition was Saturday, March 13th @ Hinckley High School in Aurora.

Northglenn High School won 1ST PLACE! They go to State Competition on Saturday, April 17th @ Metro State College!

Congratulations to Tyler & the NGHS team!

Til We Meet Again

2010-03-08T09:37:00.003-07:00

A Fond Farewell to a SPECTACULAR man! Michael L. DeShazer passed away on Saturday, February 27th due to leukemia. I first met the DeShazer family when we first moved to Colorado almost 31 years ago. Jeanne was my Young Women's Beehive advisor and they had the sweetest little boy, Jon-Michael. Jeanne would never have to worry about Jon-Michael as "her beehives" would fight over who would take care of him.

Michael was a very talented guitar player and wrote over 80 songs. He was in many bands in his life and he and his amazing wife were parents to 8 children: Jon-Michael, Geoff, Dylan, Danielle, Andrea, Stefan, Christian, and Walker.

There's a Train

There's a train and it goes down this line

And it goes very fast and it's always on time

There's a train and it don't make no stops

Yet the people get on and the people get off

There's a train and you ride everyday

Find a comfortable seat 'cause it won't go away

There's a train, it's a wonderful ride

And the scenery is nice put your girl by your side

You can trust the engineer

He's been there for years

He gave his own blood and tears

So have no fears

He's leading you back home

There's a train and it takes all your friends

And you hope they stay 'til you all reach the end

There's a train and when your journey is done

You'll be greated by friends and your dearest loved ones

There's a train and it won't jump this track

And it won't turn around

And it won't come back

There's a train and it's going somewhere

But not all the riders are even aware

That this train is taking them back home.

There's a train and it goes down the line

And it goes very fast and it's always on time.

Good night - til we meet again!

18th Birthday

2010-03-08T09:14:00.019-07:00

And the winner is???

Cassidy & Nicole with chocolate pie faces

Toby having his own belly rub party

Who will eat the most?

Pie Face (Josh Miller)

Loving the Dance Party - (left to right - Mac, Nicole, Stephanie & Melanie)

Dance Dance Dance (Nicole, Stephanie & James)

Lynette (Mom) & Stephanie

Michelle (Mom) & Cody

More Loot!

Stephanie's birthday loot - sporting new glasses

(cousin Cassidy - far left and sister Nicole)

Make a wish

Cody and Stephanie

Friday night we celebrated my niece Stephanie and nephew (by marriage) Cody's 18th birthday. While it was more a friend party, it was a blast watching the kids play Dance Party for Wii and have a pie eating contest. The party was a BLAST!

I Believe...

2010-03-05T09:50:00.006-07:00

I Believe...

That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.

And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I Believe...

That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I Believe...

That no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you every once in a while

and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe...

That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.

Same goes for true love.

I Believe...

That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I Believe..

That you should always leave loved ones with Loving words.

It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe...

That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I Believe...

That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe...

That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it has to be done,

regardless of the consequences.

I Believe....

That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe....

That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe....

That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others. Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe...

That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe....

That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe...

That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I Believe....

Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe...

That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I Believe...

That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

I Believe...

That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe...

That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

Happy March! Welcome Spring!

2010-03-03T12:19:00.002-07:00

I feel SPRING in the air - which means A NEW SPRING IN MY STEP!

My Life

2010-02-26T10:52:00.002-07:00

It's been such a long time, I think I should be goin'. And time doesn't wait for me, it keeps on rollin'. There's a long road, I've gotta stay in time with, I've got to keep on chasin' that dream, though I may never find it. I'm always just behind it.

Beauty and the Beast

2010-02-24T16:02:00.003-07:00

Today is another birthday celebration. Diane, my youngest sister, is 31 today. We are going to the Colorado Ballet to see Beauty and the Beast. Beauty and the Beast has been her favorite Disney Movie since it was first released.

My sister Janet arranged for the evening downtown at the Ellie Caulkins Opera House.

We are off for a fantastic evening of ballet and good times.

Birthday Tribute - February 23rd

2010-02-22T08:45:00.014-07:00

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BILL DEAR!

HAPPY DAYS WILL COME TO YOU ALL YEAR

IF I HAD ONE WISH THEN IT WOULD BE

A HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU FROM ME!

Happy Birthday to Bill! Bill Welch is one of my most favorite people in the entire world. I am so blessed to know him. His smile can light up a room - he can turn a frown upside down and he makes the world a better place.

These are just a FEW of the words I would use to describe Bill:
Have I done any good in the world today? Have I helped anyone in need? Have I cheered up the sad and made someone feel glad? Has anyone’s burden been lighter today because I was willing to share? Have the sick and the weary been helped on their way when they needed my help was I there? Bill would do anything for anyone. He is the most selfless man I have ever met.

TALENT! Bill was blessed with talented hands. He is infamous with his woodworking. He recently helped Tyler refinish an antique jewelry box for his friend Danielle. It turned out SPECTACULAR. He has made some very amazing things and the results are like no OTHER!

Bill is the most gentle, kind hearted individual in the world. He is always there when you need him the most. Everyone should be so blessed to know BILL! Oh how I love this guy! Maybe someday I will be lucky enough to find a "Bill" of my own!

Happy Happy Birthday Bill! Tyler and I love you so much!

Photos courtesy of Bill's facebook photos.

TaTtOoS

2010-02-19T14:17:00.002-07:00

Imagine as a parent receiving this text photo? This is what my son does in his free time! UUGGHH! Luckily it is only TEMPORARY!

bad is easy, good is hard

2010-02-09T09:48:00.002-07:00

Losing is easy. Winning is hard.
Talking is easy. Listening is hard.
Watching TV is easy. Reading is hard.
Giving advice is easy. Taking advice is hard.
Flab is easy. Muscle is hard.
Stop is easy. Go is hard.
Dirty is easy. Clean is hard.
Dream is easy. Think is hard.
Lying is easy. Truth is hard.
Sleeping is easy. Walking is hard.
Holding a grudge is easy. Forgiving is hard.
Telling a secret is easy. Keeping a secret is hard.
Play is easy. Work is hard.
Falling is easy. Getting up is hard.
Spending is easy. Saving is hard.
Eating is easy. Dieting is hard.
Doubt is easy. Faith is hard.
Criticizing is easy. Taking criticism is hard.
Secrecy is easy. Confession is hard.
Pride is easy. Humility is hard.
Excusing oneself is easy. Excusing others is hard.
Borrowing is easy. Paying back is hard.
Immorality is easy. Chastity is hard.
Argument is easy. Negotiation is hard.
Going along is easy. Walking alone is hard.
Dumb is easy. Smart is hard.
Cowardice is easy. Bravery is hard.
Messy is easy. Neat is hard.
War is easy. Peace is hard.
Sarcasm is easy. Sincerity is hard.
An F is easy. An A is hard.
Growing weeds is easy. Growing flowers is hard.
Can't do is easy. Can do is hard.
Feasting is easy. Fasting is hard.
Talking about God is easy. Following God is hard.

Life Lesson - 2

2010-01-11T12:39:00.000-07:00

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

Lessons In Life - 1

2010-01-08T11:27:00.003-07:00

1. Life isn't fair, but is still good.

Happy New Year - 2010

2010-01-01T12:15:00.001-07:00

To those we love, to those who show us love. To friends past, present and future. To those who have needed us, and those who have accepted out faults. To those who have made us smile and those whose laughter will keep us strong. To joy. To peace. To living. May love and open arms find you. May your hearts be filled. ...May all that you seek be yours and may difficult times pass over you. Peace be unto you.

Happy Holidays 2009

2009-12-29T14:31:00.002-07:00

To the best and the worst of 2009! Looking forward to 2010!

December Blessings

2009-12-14T08:42:00.003-07:00

On Sunday, December 6th, the Young Men's president in our ward at church came to collect fast offerings. His name is John Lee and he is a fantastic guy. He asked if Tyler was home. I ran upstairs and told Tyler that John Lee was at the door and told him he asked to speak with him.

Tyler came down to the door and spoke with him as I was getting a check for my fast offerings. After the conversation was over, Tyler turned to me with a glow on his face and asked me if I had heard the conversation. I told him no, I was not listening. He told me that John asked Tyler to baptize his son Jacob who had just turned eight. I asked Tyler if he was worthy to baptize Jacob and he said yes, he was. I asked him if he was planning on baptizing Jacob and he said yes.

Saturday, December 12th came and Tyler went to play football with the youth from church who were playing some of the men in the ward. Afterwards he went to John Lee's house to get the clothes he needed to be able to bapitze Jacob. The baptism was scheduled for 4:00 p.m. We got to the church at 3:40 and Tyler sat nervously and waited until the time to baptize Jacob.

Everything went as planned - it was perfect. There was a new found light in Tyler's eyes. He was glowing as if it was his own baptism.

There was a gathering at the Lee's home afterwards. We attended for a short time prior to Tyler spending the evening with his girlfriend. He told John at his home that he would see him at church on Sunday.

Sunday morning Tyler got up and got ready for church. He attended for the first time in months.

I am grateful for the Lee's, for inspiration and for small December blessings.

Why do some things not work out?

2009-11-30T11:43:00.001-07:00

God's will is not always our will.

Being Happy

2009-11-20T10:10:00.001-07:00

Love Me

2009-11-19T09:15:00.002-07:00

Wednesday

2009-11-18T08:30:00.000-07:00

Face your fears.

Today...

2009-11-17T09:26:00.001-07:00

Climb every mountain!

Halloween!

2009-11-02T11:51:00.003-07:00

Tyler spent Halloween with his girlfriend, Danielle. They were Ron Weasley and Hermoine Granger from Harry Potter.

HaPpY 16th to TyLeR

2009-07-13T12:22:00.002-06:00

Today is my Tyler's 16th birthday. He is off with friends and we are going to dinner at bd's mongolian bbq downtown tonight. More birthday posts and pictures later! I love you Buddy!

Yeah Me!

2009-07-10T11:52:00.005-06:00

I am an administrative assistant for a financial investment company here in Denver. I have worked here for a little more than 3 years. I just had my mid-year review with my boss. Out of the 180 client facing administrative assistant that work here, I am NUMBER ONE! Not only do I take a tremendous amount of pride in my work, I always give 110%! It has paid off as far as recognition!

I could not have made it with out fabulous advisors who have helped me, mentored me and motivated me to be the best I can be!

Happy 44th!

2009-07-09T11:23:00.011-06:00

Birthday cake - from Dee (one of my favorite advisors at work)

Just a post for me!! Today I am 44!! My favorite number x 2 - YEAH ME! When Tyler was a baby, I thought about how old I would be when he turned 16. He will be 16 in 4 days and I feel like I have reached a milestone in my life. Sixteen years of being a single parent - would not recommend this to anyone! This has been the toughest challenges I have ever faced in my life so far.

I came close to being married a few years ago - a great guy - he just could not commit. He moved back to Utah almost 4 years ago and we haven't heard from him in for 2 years - exactly 2 years ago today!

I am thankful for my many blessings and for friends and family!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!

For the Beauty of the Earth

2009-07-08T08:09:00.001-06:00

It doesn't get much better than an sunset walk at the park! Hot July Days... Cool Evenings... Colorado Beauty! Love it!

Mormon Tabernacle Choir

2009-07-01T09:12:00.011-06:00

The Prophet of our Church, Thomas S. Monson

Blessed with talent

Amazing Red Rocks

The Choir and Orchestra

Moon over Red Rocks

On Monday, June 29th, my friend from work, Anne and I went to see the Mormon Tabernacle Choir perform. It was amazing. The spirit was strong, the Prophet of our Church, Thomas S. Monson, was in the audience and my non-member friend Anne, was truly touched.

We went to dinner at Mimi's Cafe prior to the concert and then headed to Red Rocks for a beautiful evening of spectacular music.

I was able to answer some questions about the Church that Anne. She was very impressed by the music. My favorite songs were "Come Thou Font of Every Blessing", the title of their latest CD, Come, Come Ye Saints, God Bless America and the encore, God Be With You.

Even though Anne is not a member of our Church, she holds high values, she is an amazing person and I thankful to call her my friend.

Four Years!

2009-06-22T14:57:00.006-06:00

Four years - seems like yesterday and yet an eternity to me. Four years ago I said goodbye to my very best friend MarLa. She passed away after complications to surgery at the age of 43. She was a mother to Shawn and Dylan, step mom to Laura and Julie, grandmother to Jaden and McKenna, wife to Frank, sister to Greg, Kevin and Ron, aunt and my best friend for 18 years. We spent many days and nights talking, laughing, crying, getting in lots of trouble and just being wild and crazy. She had a sad life in so many ways, yet she had a way of changing my outlook on life. I miss her every day!

Sometimes, even our trials are meant to be, they are there to guide and shape our lives. Though often we can’t see the blessings through the storms, God still looks after His children. He does so in His own way, on His own time, and His ways are often mysterious.

A Face Only A Mother Could Love!

2009-06-15T14:12:00.002-06:00

Six Months Old...Freshly Bathed...A Profile Pose...Gives Hugs....PUPPY LOVE makes me happy!

Tornado

2009-06-08T12:50:00.005-06:00

On Sunday afternoon about 4 miles from our house, this is what we saw! Growing up in the mid-west, I hated the spring/early summer weather, because it always included tornadoes.

When I was in high school, there was the Thornton tornado - June 1981. We were in a lock down situation and didn't get home until almost 5:00 p.m. that day. The tornado did so much damage between 90th & 88th and Washington, many of the houses there experienced severe damage.

Growing up, I remember when we lived in Iowa and we were outside playing. All of a sudden the skies turned an ugly brownish green. The air got very heavy and still. The rains came along with hail and horrible wind. It sounded like a freight train was coming through our living room. A tornado went down our street and damaged random houses on our street. Our house was not damaged, but I just remember thinking I was reliving the Wizard of Oz.

Boys and a Movie

2009-06-08T08:06:00.013-06:00

UP - The newest Pixar Movie!

Ty sporting his 3-D glasses

Mugs waiting for the movie to start

Mugs wishing for ice cream

Finishing a Haagen-Daas treat

Saturday I met my Diane, Dan, Ty, Blake, my mom and Janet at the Movie to see UP! What a fantastic flick! I loved it - even though it is a KID movie! It was awesome. I laughed and cried. This was Ty's and Blake's first movie in the theatre. They did fantastic.

We did a little shopping after the movie and ended with an ice cream treat for Ty because he was so good!

30 Years

2009-06-03T13:04:00.015-06:00

City of Northglenn, Colorado

Northglenn High School

EB Rains Memorial Park (Webster Lake)
I live right by this park

June 3, 1979 is the day we moved to Colorado. My dad had purchased a house in Northglenn, moved us here and decided he didn't want to have a family after a couple of months.

I was almost 14 when I moved here and my youngest sister was 4 months. I started 9th grade in the fall of 1979, which was still in Northeast Junior High and then went to Northglenn High School and graduated in 1983.

After living in 5 other states, I can say Colorado feels most like home. I was born in Provo, Utah, lived in Byron, Wyoming, Fort Dodge, Iowa, Park Forest & Park Forest South, Illinois, St. Charles, Missouri and Northglenn, Colorado.

Each one of my siblings was born in a different state, with the exception of Colorado: Colleen & Lynette - Provo, Suzanne (deceased) - Byron, WY, Janet - Fort Dodge, IA, Cheryl - Chicago, IL, Diane & Deann (deceased) - St. Charles, MO.

People always ask if my dad was in the military - he wasn't - just liked to move, I guess. I always was a little envious of my 3 youngest sisters, as they got to go to the same schools throughout their growing up years. They knew kids from elementary through high school.

I never thought I would like in one place for so long. Tyler only has two more years before he graduates, so I will likely stay in the area until he graduates from high school - then we will see.

Nephews

2009-06-01T14:13:00.006-06:00

Blake at Easter - 7 months old

Blake - 7 months and Ty - 3 1/2 years

Matching jammies

These pictures are of Ty and Blake. Their mom is my youngest sister, Diane. She is blessed enough to be able to stay home and raise these precious little spirits. The boys love my Tyler so much. I love these little boys!

An Eternal Perspective

2009-05-26T14:37:00.004-06:00

It was 9 years ago today, I went to the temple for my own endowment. Although I have never married, it was the happiest day of my life. My favorite grandma had passed away about a month earlier, but she was with me that day. I know she was cheering for me from the other side of the veil.

When life tends to take over, we must remember the real reason we are here... to be tried, tested and prove ourselves worthy to live in the presence of our Heavenly Father.

I remember when this great temple was dedicated in 1986 by Thomas S. Monson, our living prophet.

I am thankful for my knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ, for my testimony and for the atoning sacrifice of our Savior.

Puppy Love

2009-05-18T16:48:00.006-06:00

Freshly bathed with a princess bow!

How about that underbite?

Who could ask for more than unconditional love! I love these dogs... Sadee is my very favorite and Panther is trying to follow the rules.

A Sick Boy

2009-05-13T16:36:00.007-06:00

The IV

He's out!

Monday evening after taking my mom to dinner, I took Tyler to urgent care for a migrane. The doctor was of no assistance and told us we should take him to the ER for a CT Scan on his brain. This made Tyler uneasy and he decided we should head to the ER. We got to Children's at 8:15 p.m., got a room at 11:00 p.m., they did an evaluation, asked lots of questions and decided there was no need for a CT Scan. They gave him an IV with prescription meds and fluids and released us to go home at 2:40 a.m. The headache was gone after the fluids and meds.

I am thankful for faith, prayers and modern medicine. I am happy Tyler is better and is back to his normal 15 year old boy behavior!

Happy Birthday to Mom!

2009-05-13T16:24:00.003-06:00

Birthday!

Dinner at Olive Garden

Monday, May 11th was my mom's 67th birthday. I took her to dinner at Olive Garden, which was very delicious. It was just my mom and I for dinner. She is steadfast and a great example. She raised five girls on her own, is the mother to two angel daughters, and loves her 11 grandkids.

All that I am, I owe to my mother! I love you Mom!

Happy Birthday Janet!

2009-04-27T09:58:00.005-06:00

Janet's Chocolate Eclair Birthday Cake

Mom, Colleen, & Janet - 3D Alien Glasses

Shopping - Tyler's new hat - NOT!

Janet with her new hair and Sadee

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JANET - The middle sister is now 38!

She can make anyone laugh, she loves to shop. We love to watch "What Not To Wear" together and then go to the mall and pick out candidates for the show. She loves my dog Sadee and always gives her belly rubs and knee massages.

She spent the morning getting her hair done and then off we went for some shopping at Flatiron Crossing. She chose Carino's for dinner - YUM!! We ended with a movie - Monsters vs. Aliens! It was a very cute movie! Sunday I made yummy chicken enchiladas and made her a Chocolate Eclair Cake - DELICIOUS!

Some of my favorites!

2009-04-17T14:24:00.002-06:00

These pictures tell it all - some of my very favorite people!

My mom, my nephew Mugs and my princess puppy girl, Sadee!

Life and What is Important

2009-04-16T16:46:00.005-06:00

How easy it is to be distracted in this world. This past General Conference was so inspiring me - it made me realize what we need to focus on and the things that should be important in our lives each day!

When the world leaves us in the fog, the gospel truths help to build our own firm foundation in order to rise above the storms and lead us in the righteous path home.

I Am Capable

2009-04-15T15:54:00.001-06:00

I am capable of hard things. And so are you. This life won't always give you what you expect and what you want. But there will be moments of sheer joy and moments of accomplishment after much working and waiting that will whisper to you that there is always hope. Someday you will understand how much I love you.

A Warrior Amidst Adversity

2009-04-08T15:46:00.004-06:00

Mothers are warriors. They fight the worst most intense war imaginable. They fight for their children's lives every single day in some way or another. They have casualties again, and again, and are expected to keep fighting. Their lives are bloody, literally. They are not only emotionally connected to everything, but literally, physically connected, and any loss is a loss of part of themselves.

The past month has been a battle. I must fight the fight amidst every kind of push back and adversity. I have renewed strength from the spiritual nourishment I received from General Conference this past week. I love the messages I heard... I believe they were all for me. I am grateful the our church leaders, prophets, seers and revelators. They are truly inspired from our Heavenly Father.

I can appreciate the love our Father in Heaven has for each of us despite our shortcomings and failures. I love my son, despite his shortcomings and failures. He saved my life, now it is my turn to save his!

My Sister Diane

2009-02-24T14:42:00.005-07:00

This is for my youngest sister Diane! Today is her 30th birthday. She had a rough beginning into the world, a twinless twin, very premature (3 lbs. 11 oz.), a month in the hospital, never knowing her dad and having 5 moms (1 mom and 4 older sisters).

Today she is a beautiful daughter, sister, mother and wife. She is also a Great Friend, who I love so very much! She makes me laugh, listens, and loves. She is Kind, Generous, Fiesty, Strong willed, Super Smart and Beautiful.

I am 13 1/2 years older than Diane, me being the oldest and she the youngest. Once when Diane was in high school, someone asked me if I was her mom! I didn't know what to think. Looking back on that, I laugh.

Happy, Happy Birthday to you my sweet Diane!

Sibling Rivalry

2009-02-10T09:33:00.007-07:00

Will someone please play with me?

Panther sees his shadow, confirming six more weeks of winter!

Sadee telling Panther to stay away from the house!

Sadee is still not a fan of the new addition, Panther. We spent the day at Diane's house on Saturday and Sadee and Panther came along. Panther was locked in the kitchen to prevent any accidents on Diane's carpet and Sadee was allowed in the living area with the rest of us. Panther thought he was in jail. We let them both outside to play and Sadee would not let him up on the patio. She was "yelling" at him and I can only image the lecture she was barking to him. It might have gone something like this: "who invited you here, this is not where you belong, nobody wants you here, please go back to where you came from". She growls at him at "Grandma's Daycare" and won't let him come near the couch if she is sitting next to her grandma. At home if they have both been outside for a potty break, she stands by the front door and won't let him come in. All he wants to do is play with her and she wants NOTHING to do with him. He is definately a PUPPY and wants to play, chew, chew some more, play and run. I thought he would help her be more playful, but all he has done is put her in a BAD mood. Oh the joys of SIBLING RIVALRY!

A New Addition

2009-02-03T15:31:00.003-07:00

Well, I never thought I would be writing a post about a new family member. Panther joined us on Monday, February 2nd. Tyler's friend Stephanie from school had a friend who had these puppies for $25. He promised that this was his dog, since Sadee was originally purchased for him, but became my dog. He is a boxer/shih tzu mix. His mom is the boxer and his dad is the shih tzu - a very strange combination! He is 10 weeks old and is almost as big as my princess Sadee girl. It's like having a new born. Tyler has promised me that he will take great care of him and I told him he is on a two week trial. I have never been a fan of bigger dogs since I was bitten when I was 8 and had to have rabies shots. I am sure we will be having many new adventures with new brother dog.

Greetings from Sunny Florida!!!

2009-01-25T21:33:00.005-07:00

Well, I have been in sunny Orlando now for 24 hours at our business conference. By no means is this a vacation, but a true working environment away from the office.

A few months ago, my boss approached me as being selected from a few administrative assistants across the country to go and be one of the administrative support staff for our company's annual business conference. What an honor as only the best of the best are chosen to do this. How could I decline such an offer?

I left Denver at on Saturday just after noon and arrived in Orlando at 7:50 last night after a layover in Charlotte, NC. I have writing this post at 11:40 EST and began my day at 8:30 a.m. I got back to my room about 20 minutes ago. The rest of the week, my day will begin at 6:45 a.m. and end about 9:00 or 10:00 p.m. each evening, with just a couple of short breaks. I guess that is the benefits of being chosen - alot of hard work, but I get to meet other admins across the company, network, share ideas, and get away from the office.

The weather forecast for the week is supposed to be phenonemol; however the only time I have been outside is from the airport to the car and the car to the hotel. Maybe once this week I will be able to sneak out and enjoy the Florida sunshine. The resort here is gorgeous. Hopefully I can take some photos and post them when I get back home. The name of the resort is Gaylord Palms. You can check it out at http://www.gaylordpalms.com/.

I will post more if I get the opportunity while I am still here.

Maybe

2009-01-08T16:08:00.003-07:00

I received this from a very special friend on Christmas Day and thought I would share it...

1. Maybe... We were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

2. Maybe... when the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us.

3. Maybe... it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.

4. Maybe... the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

5. Maybe... the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.

6. Maybe... you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.

7. Maybe... there are moments in life when you miss someone - a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child - so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more.

8. Maybe... The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a work, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

9. Maybe... you should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person too.

10. Maybe... you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.

11. Maybe... giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.

12. Maybe... happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.

13. Maybe... you shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

14. Maybe... you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

15. Maybe... you should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one whi is smiling and everyone around you crying.

Thanks to my awesome friend for sharing this with me.

Happy New Year - 2009

2009-01-05T10:49:00.003-07:00

What a wonderful Christmas season we enjoyed. We spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with Diane, Dan and their 2 boys Ty and Blake. It was very fun to be with little kids who are so very excited for Christmas.

Tyler got Rock Band for his WII and an XBox 360 (thanks Santa)! Every year there is a great Santa who brings Tyler his one wish. He got to go shopping with an American Eagle gift card from Grandpa Bill and Grandma Jean and got two new shirts and some new jeans, which are now his new favorite jeans. AE had some great deals after Christmas and so his gift card was well spent.

Tyler is very independent and wants to be with his friends. He is learning to drive and is doing very well. I am not nervous riding with him. He is very cautious and takes my driving tidbits to heart. He usually asks after driving how he did and is open to suggestions.

I am not ready for Tyler to grow up regarding girls. He likes a girl from school that he met last year in his German class. She is in his German class again this year. Tyler spent New Year's Eve at Danielle's house. He also met a girl at his friend Brian's birthday party. Amber came over the Friday after Christmas and had a movie day with Tyler. She had her gall bladder out the week before Christmas and was moving rather slow. He spent part of a day at her house last week.

Tyler will be 16 in 6 months. Luckily he won't have his license for another year, since he just got his permit. I have a little time to prepare for this new chapter in our lives.

I'm looking forward to a new year, new goals and new opportunities.

Merry Christmas

2008-12-23T08:53:00.004-07:00

Christmas is 2 days away. My mom is in Arizona for Christmas this year to spend it with my sister Cheryl and her family. This is my first Christmas away from mom since I was 14 and spent in Las Vegas with my aunt, pining over some guy 9 years older than me, who probably doesn't remember my name! WOW how times and priorities have changed.

Since Cheryl's oldest is being baptized on the 27th, Diane, Janet and I thought we would send her to Arizona for the baptism. We soon discovered that Cheryl would like to have mom spend Christmas with their family since they have 4 young kids. We found an inexpensive ticket and Mom left on Monday and will be gone until January 6th. What a nice time away for her.

Tyler and I, along with Janet, will be spending Christmas with Diane, Dan, Ty and Blake (aka Mugs). Oh what fun we will have seeing the sparkle in Ty's eyes with each gift he unwraps. He will most likely unwrap for Mugs as he is only 3 months old and would rather be eating or sleeping. What a life - want to trade, Mugs?

May the spirit of Christmas be with you and your families at this wonderful time of year!

Big Foot

2008-12-16T09:39:00.005-07:00

Big Foot is real.... he lives in my house. Shoes for my Tyler are hard to come by. Size 15 shoes cannot be found in most stores. You have to look on line and the styles are not stylish, especially for a 15 year boy. A couple of months ago, Tyler and I were in The Gap, one of my favorite stores. I was trying to find some clothes for my fashionista boy and low and behold he called me over. Not for some clothes mind you, but for SHOES! Tyler loves shoes... he has more shoes than I do. Who would have thought my 15 year old BOY would love shoes. He found a pair of Converse All Stars - size 13 that fit him. MOM, he says with delight. May I please have these shoes. I love them. The best thing is they fit and they were on sale for cheap! We got them home and Tyler goes to wear them and they are both right foot shoes... AARRGGH! I took them back to The Gap and lo and behold no more size 13. I explained to the clerk what happened and she called around and found the same shoe in Cherry Creek Mall. HOORAY!

My sister Janet works part time at Target, my other favorite store. She found these shoes on clearance for Big Foot. HAPPY FEET are here again!

For The Love of BOYS!

2008-12-16T09:24:00.010-07:00

Ty Salda - 3 years old
Blake Salda and Tyler Asay

Blake Salda and Tyler Asay

Babies....3 year olds....15 year olds.... I love my boys... only 2 of them are my sister Diane's boys. Growing up in a family of five girls, I thought boys were creepy. They were dirty, liked bugs, frogs, snakes and everything a girly girl did not like. Once my sisters and I started having kids, we had boys first. Lynette was first with Justin. Then she had 3 girls. I had Tyler. Cheryl started with Jacob and Jared and 2 girls and Diane has two boys. Boys are great. I would trade all the girls in the world for a boy. There is something about a sweet boy, whether they be 3 months, 3 years or 15 years old. I am grateful to have had a son to teach, raise and love. Tyler has given me the opportunity learn many things, to laugh at him, to cry over him, to fret over, to worry about but mostly to love.

I think about my favorite dessert - white molten lava cake with raspberry sauce, which I discovered at Chili's. I love this dessert... it is delectable. There is something about warm raspberry sauce... I love it. I would love to drizzle warm raspberry sauce over my boy and gobble them up. Is being a cannabal OK... probably not, but loving and oogling over my son is OK. What a delight these boys in my life bring to me.

Blessings

2008-11-24T16:43:00.009-07:00

The Family

Terry Packer, Colleen Asay, Lynette Packer, Janet Asay, Melanie Packer, Tyler Asay, Diane & Blake Salda, Justin Packer, Nicole Packer, Dan Salda, Stephanie Packer, Marilyn Asay

Left to Right: Justin Packer, Dan Salda, Tyler Asay, Terry Packer

Front: Brad Packer and Blake Salda

Diane, Blake, Dan and Ty Salda

This past month has been a crazy busy month. Year end is coming at work and there have been several deadlines that have come and gone and are yet to come for get work completed. I have been coming in early and leaving late, hence little time with Tyler. He is a good sport, but there is also a work/life balance that needs to happen. Since I am the sole support of my little family, sometimes I don't have a choice.

Blake was blessed on November 2nd. It was a great day. Here are some pictures I took off Diane's blog (thanks sister!). If you read her blog, these will be a duplicate, but hopefully you will enjoy them anyway.

There are some exciting in the pipeline for 2009 at work. I work for TIAA-CREF in the wealth management area. I support some spectacular financial advisors and they are both gearing up for some large goals in 2009. I will be a part of both of their teams and am excited to ramp up for a year of great work.

I have so many things to be thankful for... a home, a good son, an extended family, a good job and some sweet friends, especially Jean, Bill & Grandma Welch!

Happy Thanksgiving and love to you all!

8 is Great Tag!

2008-11-24T16:22:00.006-07:00

I was tagged by my sister Cheryl...

8 TV shows I love to watch:

1. What Not To Wear

2. Dog the Bounty Hunter

3. Ghost Hunters

4. The Suite Life of Zack and Cody

5. 9News

6. Little People, Big World

7. American Idol

8. Mythbusters

8 things that happened to me yesterday:

1. Took Sadee for a walk

2. Played the piano for the Primary Program at Church

3. Fixed dinner for my mom and Tyler

4. Did 5 loads of laundry

5. Crocheted a baby blanket - not complete

6. Thought about what I needed to do at work this week

7. Packed some old clothes to give away

8. Thought about Thanksgiving

8 Favorite places to eat:

1. At home with Tyler

2. Quiznos

3. Qdoba

4. Chick Fil A

5. Old Santa Fe

6. Chili's

7. Trinity Grille

8. Texas Roadhouse

8 things I am looking forward to:

1. The Holidays and time off of work

2. Quiet weeks at work

3. Snow

4. Time with Tyler

5. Tyler learning to drive

6. Losing weight

7. Staying healthy

8. 2009 at work

8 people I tag!

1. Lisa Rich

2. Diane Salda

3. Jean Burns

4. Lisa Crane

5. Kristiina Burns

6. Cassie Weber

7. Karin Mikawa

8. Whoever wants to play!

Unhappy Tyler :(

2008-11-24T15:57:00.004-07:00

Tyler is a social butterfly. He loves to hang out with friends and especially girls. He had a girl that he really liked. She is a nice girl, but about Halloween, Tyler found out that this girl had a boyfriend. He was devastated. It was very hard for him to accept, but she is of dating age, and Tyler won't be able to date until July 2009. This was a tough hard knock life lesson for him, but I am confident that he will be able to work through it and feel better about life. It's tough when you're a single mom and you have a 15 year old boy who doesn't always feel like spilling his emotional guts to his mom. I try my best to not impose, but let him know the communication lines need to remain open. I love my Tyler Scott!

Sweet Baby Blake

2008-11-24T15:51:00.005-07:00

Wake up sleepy boy!

Don't bother me... I was happy sleeping.

Tyler and Blake

I love my nephew Blake. He reminds me so much of my Tyler when he was a baby. He is sweet natured, healthy (14.5 pounds - 95% percentile and 24" long - 75% percentile). He is so funny because he has a hard time keeping his eyes open. Maybe he thinks he won't have to face the world if he keeps his eyes open! HA HA. We all went shopping on the 15th of November and these pictures were taken when Tyler was holding him.

Thankful!

2008-10-28T12:45:00.003-06:00

Too many times we go through our lives taking things for granted. I have a very good friend who is a convert to our church. I played the piano at his baptism. He and his family were sealed in the temple. A few years ago, their family stopped going to church. I feel so sad inside for them. He told me that he still believes in God, but just chooses not to go to church. None of their kids go to church. He is the only member in his family and her family is very active.

I was inactive in my 20's. All of my friends went to college. I stayed in Colorado to work. The only young single ward was in Boulder. My sister and I attended, but since we didn't go to CU, they asked us not to come back. My friends became those I worked with and they didn't have the same values as I did. I found many excuses to not attend church. It was no fun to go to a family ward when you are young and single.

I knew what I should be doing, but I did my best to justify my poor choices and continuing on the dark path farther and farther away from the truth - all the time knowing in the back of my head the truths I had been taught in my early youth. Satan had the biggest grasp on me and I was headed for the biggest downturn in my life.

To make a long, long story short, I was sent an angel. His name is Tyler. He rescued me from the depths of hell. My life has not been easy, partly because of bad choices, but I know that we are all here to be tested. The results of our test are ultimately what we are striving for. I have a daily reminder of where I want my end results to be. He is 15 and is my angel. I am grateful to my Heavenly Father for my special angel!